Do he want me as his girlfriend?

Now he's a stripper. people tell me im dum 4 fallin 4 a stripper but i c him more than that. he text me everyday, he always want to see me wenever im not busy, i asked him what he like about me and he said he like my swagg(watever that mean), my style, and my over all personality. so i told him lets be together then, and he said we gotta chill together first. why wont he just be with me now?